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Sebastian Scales: Child Molestation (Processing Trauma through Laughter)

by | Sep 29, 2021 | Podcasts: Trauma | 0 comments

Sebastian is a stand-up comedian who has used laughter to process and to heal from trauma. I’m so thankful he was brave enough and kind enough to share his story. He’s helping so many people reframe their pasts and to not live in fear of what has happened to them. Laughter allows us to be vulnerable and tears down walls for us to get real and begin to heal.

Trigger Warning: He shares his story of being molested from 8-10 years old. The language we both used would not be suitable for kids, so please listen to this with discretion.

If you were molested or are aware of a child being molested, please find someone safe to tell. We have to end this epidemic!

Make sure to check out Sebastian’s organization for more resources on ending child molestation.

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